How to Gain Control of Your Free Time

Laura Vanderkam

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How to Gain Control of Your Free Time

How to Gain Control of Your Free Time

by Laura Vanderkam

TED201618 min

Laura Vanderkam shares practical strategies for making time for the things that matter most. There are 168 hours in each week. How do we find time for what matters most? Time management expert Laura Vanderkam studies how busy people spend their lives, and she's discovered that many of us drastically overestimate our commitments each week, while underestimating the time we have to ourselves. She offers a few practical strategies to help find more time for what matters to us, so we can "build the lives we want in the time we've got."

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Two of Wands

Two of Wands

A lord stands atop a castle looking out at the world, weighing the comfort of success against the call of new horizons.

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Why This Mapping?

The Two of Wands is the preeminent card of "planning for the future" and making choices about where to direct your energy. Just as Vanderkam argues that we must consciously choose how to fill our 168 hours rather than reacting to constraints, the Two of Wands depicts a figure with "the world in your hands," pausing to "plot and plan" their next course of action before engaging.

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The Power of Planning Vanderkam advocates for a "Friday Afternoon Review" to look at the week ahead and slot in priorities. Similarly, the Two of Wands represents the moment one pauses to "dedicate time to planning my next big project or adventure". It is a card that rejects "excessive hesitance" or "disorganization" in favor of strategy. Time as a Choice A core argument in the talk is that saying "I don't have time" really means "it's not a priority." The Two of Wands embodies this agency; it is a card of "personal intention" where the figure holds a globe, contemplating "Where in the whole wonderful world will I explore next?" and "Whatever shall I do?". It signifies that "the world is in your hands" and you have the agency to decide where to focus. Vision over Reaction Vanderkam suggests we build the life we want first, and time saves itself. This aligns with the Two of Wands' energy of "looking ahead" to a "future" that has not yet happened, turning one's back on the past to focus on the "ideals and successes played out ahead". It is the distinct moment of "decision making" where one weighs options carefully to ensure the outcome is "awesome". Architecting Reality Just as Vanderkam describes designing a life like a mosaic, the Two of Wands is associated with "dominion" and the "boldness" to execute a vision. It suggests that you are "on the track to making it happen" because you have "laid the necessary groundwork".

Reflection Questions

  • What territory am I afraid to leave?
  • Where do I want to be in the long term?
  • What surprise is disrupting my control?