How to Find the Person Who Can Help You Get Ahead at Work

Carla Harris

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How to Find the Person Who Can Help You Get Ahead at Work

How to Find the Person Who Can Help You Get Ahead at Work

by Carla Harris

TED201813 min

Carla Harris explains the difference between a sponsor and a mentor.

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Tarot Mapping

Two of Cups

Two of Cups

Two souls come together in a balanced union, pledging mutual respect and affection.

partnershipunitymutual attractiontruceemotional connection

Why This Mapping?

Carla Harris’s talk aligns with the Two of Cups because it centers on intentional, mutual partnership... finding one person who sees you, advocates for you, and enters a relationship of reciprocal trust and commitment.

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On the Two of Cups page, the card is framed as chosen relationship: mutual recognition, alignment of values, and a bond that only works when both parties opt in consciously. This is about resonance, trust, and agreement. That framing maps directly onto Carla Harris’s core message. In How to Find the Person Who Can Help You Get Ahead at Work, Harris dismantles the idea that advancement comes from vague visibility or generic mentorship. Instead, she argues for identifying a specific sponsor: someone who knows your work, believes in your potential, and is willing to stake their reputation on you. That dynamic is quintessential Two of Cups: a deliberate pairing where both people gain something meaningful. You bring excellence, reliability, and clarity of ambition; they bring advocacy, access, and belief. Importantly, Harris emphasizes that this relationship must be cultivated through authenticity and delivery, not manipulation. You don’t “use” a sponsor, you earn the relationship by showing up consistently and allowing yourself to be truly known. That mirrors the Two of Cups’ deeper teaching: connection requires vulnerability, honesty, and mutual respect. The cup is exchanged, not taken. Where other career talks focus on ladders, strategies, or self-promotion, this one focuses on relational alchemy. Advancement happens through human bonds that are clear, mutual, and sustained. In Tarot terms, this is not the Three of Cups’ social circle or the Six of Pentacles’ hierarchy... it is the moment two people look at each other and say, “We are aligned, and we choose to walk together.”

Reflection Questions

  • Who mirrors my values and how can I deepen my connection with them?
  • What step can I take to heal a rift or strengthen a partnership today?
  • Where am I sacrificing my own balance for the sake of a relationship?